Is There a Difference Between Settling in Religious vs. Secular Areas in Eretz Yisrael?

Is There a Difference Between Settling in Religious vs. Secular Areas in Eretz Yisrael?
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Yes — there can be a meaningful difference. But as with many things in Torah life, it depends: on your level, your goals, your family’s needs, and the unique mission Hashem has given you.

Let’s begin with a foundational truth: The mitzvah of yishuv Eretz Yisrael — settling the Land — applies anywhere within its borders. The kedushah of Eretz Yisrael is not confined to Yerushalayim, Bnei Brak, or Tzfas. A Jew living in Haifa, Ashkelon, or even on a remote kibbutz is still fulfilling the mitzvah of yishuv ha’Aretz

But when it comes to living a Torah-centered life, the environment you surround yourself with plays a powerful role.

1. Spiritual Atmosphere Matters

Chazal teach:

“Woe to the wicked, woe to his neighbor.” (Sukkah 56b)² And conversely: “Fortunate are those who dwell in Your house…” (Tehillim 84:5)

Environment matters. It shapes our sensitivities, our values, and most of all — our children.

In a religious neighborhood, there is generally:

  • More Torah learning
  • Tznius in the streets
  • Shabbos observance
  • Kosher stores
  • Access to Rabbanim and shiurim
  • Neighbors who share your worldview

This creates a current that pulls you upward.

Rav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach zt”l once said that raising a Torah-true family in an irreligious area is like trying to grow flowers in a field of thorns — it’s not impossible, but it takes extraordinary care, protection, and tefillah.³

2. But Don’t Discount the Light in Darkness

At the same time, we must not overlook the tremendous zechus of those who choose to live in secular or mixed areas — not in spite of the environment, but because of the opportunity to be a living kiddush Hashem.

Rav Yosef Chaim Sonnenfeld zt”l, the Rav of Yerushalayim, once praised a Jew who moved into a secular part of the city specifically to bring Torah and mitzvos there. He said such people bring great merit to all of Klal Yisrael.⁴

Indeed, many baalei teshuvah movements began with just one or two frum families on a secular street — not preaching, but living with warmth, integrity, and love. That alone kindles light.

3. Safety, Chinuch — and Chinuch Again

Practically speaking, for those raising children, the neighborhood is a crucial factor.

Rav Elazar Menachem Man Shach zt”l said that the most powerful influence on a child’s spirituality is his friends — not necessarily his school or his teachers.⁵

That’s why many parents seek out Torah communities — to provide:

  • A wholesome peer group
  • Natural social reinforcement of emunah and yiras Shamayim
  • Role models in everyday life

But for singles, childless couples, or empty nesters, the calculation may change. Some are sent on a unique shlichus — to plant Torah in places that lack it.

As the Rambam writes:

“A person should always live in a place of talmidei chachamim… but if he is strong in his emunah, he may live elsewhere to strengthen others.” (Hilchos Deos 6:1)⁶

4. Kedushas HaMakom vs. Kedushas HaAdam

The place carries holiness. But the person brings holiness too.

There are people living in the heart of Bnei Brak who barely feel the kedushah — and others living in Tel Aviv who learn Daf Yomi each night and fill their homes with yiras Shamayim.

It’s not just where you live — it’s how you live there.

The Satmar Rebbe zt”l once said, quoting Pirkei Avos:

“Make for yourself a Rav, acquire for yourself a friend, and judge every person favorably.” And then he added: “Make sure you live in a place where all three are possible.”⁷

In Conclusion

Yes — there is a difference. Religious neighborhoods offer a natural support system for Torah life. Secular ones offer unique challenges — and often, unique opportunities for growth and outreach.

Each person must make their decision with daas Torah, weighing:

  • Family needs
  • Chinuch priorities
  • Personal mission
  • Community resources

Wherever a Jew lives in Eretz Yisrael, they are fulfilling a great mitzvah. But when that Jew lives with Torah, with clarity, and with purpose — they are not just living in the Land — they are building it.

Sources

  1. Ramban, Hasagos to Sefer HaMitzvos, Mitzvah 4; Rambam, Hilchos Melachim 5:12
  2. Sukkah 56b
  3. Quoted in Halichos Shlomo, Introduction
  4. Mishkenos Haro’im, vol. 1, on Rav Sonnenfeld’s public addresses
  5. Rav Shach as quoted by his talmidim; see Michtavim U’Maamarim, vol. 1
  6. Rambam, Hilchos Deos 6:1
  7. Comment attributed to the Satmar Rebbe, cited in Divrei Yoel, Parshas Re’eh